Real Torah. The Real You.
Welcome to אני
Emotional Transformation, Rooted in Torah
Personal Development & Life Coaching
I walk with people from every walk of life — helping you understand yourself, develop emotional awareness, build self-acceptance, strengthen your relationships, and experience greater freedom in everyday life.
A personal development approach focused on awareness, connection, confidence and growth — all of it straight from the Torah.
אני
Feel good being you
Rooted in Mishlei & Chazal · Private & confidential · Zoom, phone or in person
What my clients share
“More movement in 10 days with ANI than in 10 years of therapy.”
Welcome to The ANI Course
The story behind ANI
My journey to inner transformation.
I grew up in Kiryas Joel. After getting married, I made my home in Australia, where I spent 18 years building a successful business and a life with my family.
Alongside that success, I lived with the daily challenges of ADHD. I invested close to $80,000 in therapy and kept searching for a deeper, lasting shift.
Then I discovered Mishlei. Three words became a turning point — reshaping how I understood myself, how I felt within, and how I lived. Its wisdom became something I could experience and carry into everyday life.
Three years ago, I returned to the USA. Since then, I have been helping people through deep challenges in marriage, relationships, and connection, drawing on the wisdom and depth of Mishlei.
“I bring you my life's experience — walked, lived, and transformed.”
— Simcha Naftali Tzvi Klagsbrun · Founder of The ANI Course
What I want to achieve with this course
Everything I say and teach — the deep psychology — is built on the words of Chazal.
My goal is to make the world a better place to be in, first by changing the "look" people have on themselves. As שלמה המלך says:
גּוֹמֵל נַפְשׁוֹ אִישׁ חָסִיד, וְעֹכֵר שְׁאֵרוֹ אַכְזָרִיThis is secret #1. How can I perceive the world in a bright light when I feel / think / believe / see / know / hear / say on my own self that I'm small, heavy, dark, far from "geshmak"?
I want to make the world a better place — a place of "pleasure," "joy," and "comfort," within ourselves and among others. Can you help me? I need each one of you as a "member," as an "ANI tower of light."
When our brains learn to see light — giving ourselves and others the "benefit of the doubt" — healing finds room, space, and a place to grow. We need to put down a strong, solid, unshakable "structure," taken from משלי and חז״ל, that is "unshakable" and "everlasting," and that will practically "force" our brain into positive gearing.
שלמה המלך promises:
כִּי מֹצְאִי מָצָא חַיִּיםLife — here, today, now, this second. Openness.
My goal, my aim, is to promote emotional openness, groundedness, and safety — a world of healthy growing pain only — the kind that builds us. A life of "lightness and ease." A life of "love, connection, and passion." I promise to bring you there.
One 100% promise I will give you: if you follow my course, if you follow my הדרכה, if you follow these 12 Core Values from משלי — if you practice and live by them every day — I "promise," yes "promise," a life of "bliss," "freedom," "calm," "love," "inner fulfillment and 100% happiness," "groundedness." 100%, I promise — or you can have every penny back, געזינטערהייט. This is a 100% promise.
You will have connection, love, prosperity, clarity, structure, and move through life with pleasure.
This is my goal, this is my motto, this is my aim: make the world a place of love and calm, of strong, healthy men and emotionally healed women —
מיטן הילף פֿונעם הייליגן באַשעפער
— Simcha Naftali Tzvi Klagsbrun
The ANI Philosophy
People are good.
People want to feel good.
People want to feel good being themselves, with people, and in life.
ANI is the philosophy.
The courses are the ways people enter it.
— Simcha Naftali Tzvi Klagsbrun
The heart of אני
איך בין
I am
אָננעמען
Acceptance
באקוועם
Comfort
ליב
Love
פֿאַרבינדונג
Connection
The 12 Core Human Values
לָדַעַת חָכְמָה וּמוּסָר — from knowing wisdom to living wisdom. Practical guidance for how to live, how to relate to people, and how to grow.
Truth
Living honestly with yourself before anyone else.
Humility
Quiet strength, settled and secure.
Patience
Responding instead of reacting.
Kindness
Giving from a full and open heart.
Wisdom
Knowing what to do — and doing it.
Gratitude
Seeing the good that is already here.
Responsibility
Owning your choices, freeing your life.
Respect
Honoring yourself and every person.
Peace
Connection over being right.
Self-Control
Gently mastering the moment.
Joy
A settled heart that feels good being you.
Faith
Trust that steadies everything else.
Reviews From Real People
“Twenty years of marriage, and for the first time we actually hear each other. The 12 values gave us a shared language. Our home feels different — lighter, warmer.”
Chaim & Rivky
Married 20 years
“For years I searched for answers. ANI showed me exactly what to do, step by step. I wake up now and I feel good being me.”
Yossi L.
Brooklyn, NY
“The clarity is unreal. Every value is laid out so simply, straight from Mishlei, that I finally understood my own patterns in one session.”
Malky S.
Mother of six
“I learned healthy boundaries, and today I love people more deeply than ever.”
Devorah K.
Teacher
“My anger used to run my house. Learning patience and self-control as a way of life brought calm into my home and closeness with my kids.”
Moshe R.
Father of four
“This is transformation. I came for one problem and walked away with a whole new relationship with myself.”
Shimon G.
Business owner
“The Pressure System map opened my eyes. Today I feel whole and enough, just as I am.”
Leah B.
Lakewood, NJ
“My wife noticed the difference before I said a word. That's how deep it goes.”
Avi T.
Married 8 years
“Old wounds I carried since childhood finally have a place to rest. It's healing through Torah — gentle, clear, and real.”
Esther M.
Grandmother
The ANI Method
The Nervous System
A foundation of inner safety
Understand your body's signals and nurture a calmer, more settled place within.
The Human Systems Map
See yourself as a whole
Explore how your inner systems connect, bringing clarity to your emotions, needs, and patterns.
The Pressure System
Make room for gentleness
Recognize inner pressure and create space for a softer, more intentional response.
The 12 Core Values
Bring wisdom into everyday life
Practice the values of Mishlei in your choices, your relationships, and the way you live.
Most Common Questions
Private · One on one
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Live Appointment
- Do you ever feel less, or inferior, between others?
- Do you lose your chain of thought in the middle of a conversation?
- Do you need clarity with your own self?
Start with one session, and gradually learn and grow.
אני
Feel good being you.
Your transformation begins with the classes.
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